Is he playing the dating game
Is there a way to break the texting game or is that who that person is by nature and there’s nothing that can be done? Honestly, there’s no winning if you view a relationship as a game in the first place.Whether or not it’s intentional is something you can never know for sure, so it’s in your best interest to believe it’s not (and if it is, then it’s because of some fear or issue he has and not because he’s trying to manipulate you). How could he disappear after he was so totally into me? The Value of Understanding Men’s Deadly Dating Patterns"You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly." ~Sam Keen In the just released paperback version of Love in 90 Days, I devote a whole new chapter to the 16 most common Men’s Deadly Dating Patterns based on personality types. That’s why dating and relationships can be so confusing and frustrating.Absence creates anticipation and a feeling of "If I don't see her now, I'll die." When he calls, "let your voice mail pick up now and then," says Sherry Argov, author of ."It shows him that you're worth the wait and effort. You want to know why a guy is giving you mixed messages?
As in: “He’s doing this to me/against me, so I need to counteract what he’s doing to me and win…” There’s no winning/losing in relationships…You can’t have love in a relationship and simultaneously have counter-measures and defenses in how you relate to the other person. Maybe short, isolated events will happen that can make you feel like you’re gaining or losing ground…